Wednesday, January 28, 2009

hes gone.................

robbie and jasper....1993
Jasper.. 6/1993 to 1/2009
i'm not doing so well right now...

35 comments:

scrappicat said...

Oh I am so sorry. We lost our Yoda 3 years ago. My heart is with you.

Thimbleprims Studio said...

Oh Vivian,
I'm so sorry. It is devastating to lose a cat child.
I know it's hard, but please do whatever you can to take care of yourself during this difficult time.
Just get through one day at a time as best you can. I am here if you need me.
All my love,
Cindy

Mary Isabella and Kiley too! said...

I am so sorry !!! Please know I am sending you my love and I am praying for you!!! This is so sad and I pray for the hurt to go away....m..

Farmchick said...

Dear Vivian~
When I saw your post title my heart dropped. I am so sorry...I know how hard it is to lose a pet that you have loved and that loved you. Cherish your memories of your sweet Jasper....and know that his world was wonderful because of your love.
Big Hugs~~
Tania

Carla said...

Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. It's so very hard to lose a much loved fur baby. Please read this poem. It might give you some comfort. All my love, Viv. http://www.rainbowbridge.com/Poem.htm

T=ME said...

Viv I am so sorry! I don't know anyone who fought harder for a furry family member. Please know as long as Jasper is in your heart he is alive! Hugs, Terri

Aunt Pitty Pat's said...

Oh goodness... here is a huge hug for you. I am so sorry you have lost your little one.... My thoughts and prays will be with you. I know how hard it is to loose a beloved pet. Just remember you provided a wonderful loving home for your sweet Jasper for many years.
M

Susan said...

Viv, know that you are not alone with your tears. Please let us know if you need anything. I'm sure Jasper and Milo will be great friends. Love, Susan

Geralyn Gray said...

So sorry for your loss.

craftyhala said...

My heart goes out to you. I have three cats and don't know what I'd do with out them.
My love to you,
Mahala

Lydia said...

Vivian,
I am so sorry for your loss, and your pain. He's not suffering. He's cozy and warm in God's arms.
xo Lydia

michelle said...

So, so sorry.

smilemonsters said...

Oh, I'm so sorry.

Jo

kana said...

Vivian,

I am sad to hear about Jasper. I will be thinking about you and hope you are feeling better soon.
Kana

bojojoti said...

I know Jasper was as special to you as my dear Sheba was to me. Days after she was gone, I kept "seeing" her around the house--I was just so used to her presence. I still miss her terribly, and she has been gone since '95. I love Trophy, but Sheba and I had a connection. I was her person.

I was grateful my fur baby didn't have to suffer any longer, but I missed her just the same.

Love you. ♥

Viv (VivLyn) said...

My heart is breaking for you right now. I know how much you loved that sweet little guy. I had my Sebastian cremated so he's still in the house with me. Weird I know, but it makes me feel a wee bit better. Take care of yourself and think about a new little critter...not to take his place but to share all that love that will need someplace to go. Viv #2

Theresia (minoridesign) said...

Viv,
I am sooo SORRY!!
Jasper will always be in your heart!
I love the picture of Jasper and your son, i have the same one of Toby and our youngest daughter Sophie!
Thinking of you xxxxxxxxxxxx

Lori said...

so sad Viv...i left you a note on flickr

Mia Sophia said...

I am so sorry! My heart aches for you. (((hug)))

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barbara burkard said...

sending out my love and hugs...i'm so sorry for your loss...

love you!

jillian said...

I'm really sorry Viv. My heart is breaking for you. Wish we could all come and give you big hugs.
XOXO
Jillian

Gypsy Mermaid said...

viv- i am sooo sorry. I know nothing I say will take the pain away. If you need to talk I am here for you. Love you, sarah

AwtemNymf said...

Whew! Sniffling over here as I know how you feel. We get attached to our fur babies because they ARE our own. They ARE family. I'm so sorry Viv. He lived a long life. Happy too! Let yourself grieve and heal. You'll go thru the motions, but he will always be with you. He's left a paw print on your heart! You will see him again someday- he will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge and you can skip and play all the time!
The pic is so sweet. my other fave is when you took a picture of him with the red "L-O-V-E" glittered letters banner and he was in the middle of the letters! RIP sweet Jasper!
{({HUGS})} We love you Viv!!

Brenda said...

Aww, Viv, I'm so sorry. My heart hurts for you. I hope it helps to know others care, and are thinking about you and your family during this very sad time.

Many hugs,
Brenda
xxoo

Sandy Michelle said...

Ohhhh nooooo I'm so sorry to hear that Jasper is gone Viv!!!Hang in there!

Susan (a former lurker) said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. Right after I read your post yesterday, my husband sent me a link to Scott Adams' blog. It's about the decision he had to make about his cat, Sarah. (we are to the point to make the same horrible decision) http://dilbert.com/blog/entry/my_cat_again/ It's really hard (emotionally)to read, so I'll just quote you the last paragraph. Maybe it will help bring you some comfort.

"But today I am happy, even more than usual. I think about how much Sarah enriched my life and I am grateful. I think about how much I learned from my relationship with her, and even from her passing, and I am thankful for it all. Today everyone in my life seems more precious. I'll always carry Sarah with me, and I know I am better for it."

(((Viv)))

Ele at abitofpinkheaven said...

Oh, Viv, big, big, big hugs to you. I'm so very sorry. Think of the beautiful times you had together. You gave Jasper a wonderful home.

The Altered Nest said...

Viv,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you in your time of sadness. It is never easy losing a loved one including our fur babies!

...Miss...Maddie's... said...

Sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved kittie.
Only a fellow cat owner can comprehend the loss of such a endearing member of your family.
Remember though you and he were so fortunate to have spent the years together sharing your heart and home.
Susan

Melissa said...

Ah Viv, I'm sending you a big hug! I know how hard it is to lose a pet which really isn't just a "pet" but a member of your family, a true friend and a someone who can always make you smile.
Big Hug-
Melissa (Toots)

Libby Buttons said...

So saddened by your loss and keeping you in prayer. Loss of a pet is very, very difficult. Take your time and feel what you need to feel.

natalea said...

oh Viv! I just read this! I would have said something on the phone if i knew...I'm SO,SO sorry. I know the sadness you are feeling...my dear cat was put to sleep in December. So my heart goes out to you. I hope you are feeling better. xoxo nat

Bone*Head*Studios said...

oh Vivian!!! I'm so sorry for your loss, I wish I had come to visit you sooner, furbabies give so much and ask for so little in return, I hope you are comforted by the good times and thoughts, you had with Jasper...
blessings,Flora

catieann said...

oh viv
i am so sorry jasper is gone. I know how much you loved him and he you. You were such a wonderful mommy and gave him the best home ever.
HUGS HUGS AND More hugs come your way.
catie